Trans men often experience transphobia on gay dating apps. Here’s an article about a nonbinary trans man’s experience, and (especially if you’re cis) some firsthand tips on how to treat people on The Apps™. These are just two people’s experiences, and by no means represent all of the trans community, obviously.

This booklet includes a comprehensive sex guide for gay trans men, including tips on disclosing, finding sex, safer sex, sucking, fucking, and more! There’s also this fun trans sex activity book.

Cade and David use a strap on! Here’s how to use one properly, and don’t forget to keep your sex toys clean.

But they don’t really talk about lube when David uses a dildo on himself. You should use lube! They can be water-based, silicone-based, or oil based, just remember never to use silicone-based lubes on silicone sex toys, and never use oil-based lubes on latex barrier methods. Water-based lube works with everything, but can dry out a little quicker as well.

The Brown Boi Project’s Freeing Ourselves: A Guide to Health and Self Love is a great resource for transmasc people of color!

Top or bottom? Lol here’s a Buzzfeed quiz to help you find out.